Thank
the Guests
It seems odd that one of
the most frequently practiced wedding traditions has no definitive
origin. Over the years however, it has become the usual way for the
bridal couple to express their thanks towards
their guests. Records dating back to the 16th and 17th centuries
document bridal couples in England giving out love knots made
of lace and ribbons as party favors. Early Russian history notes
that Russian couple also distributed favors.
The concept has managed to survive through the years, taking on different
forms in different cultures. In the US it has evolved into
a huge
industry, as manufacturers continue to invent new favors
and make twists on old ones to bring into the wedding marketplace.
In Malaysian culture hand-painted, decorated eggs are the traditional
wedding favor as they are a regional symbol of fertility.
Italian couples traditionally
distribute hard-shelled chocolate candy filled with almonds, or marzipan
(almond paste) fruits.
Guests frequently recieve orange blossoms at Spanish
weddings, often accompanied by a bud vase.
Middle Eastern wedding favors center on the Jordan almond. Grown plentifully
in the region, the multicolored, candy-coated nut represents the bitter
and the sweet sides of marriage. The almonds are presented in containers
that range from simple mesh bags to silver tins. Middle Eastern custom
dictates
that five almond pieces are given to each guest. The number five
represents the five wedding wishes: health, wealth, happiness, fertility
and longevity.
The traditional Greek wedding favor is a "switch." The couple
recieves glass charms shaped like an eye. The custom "assures" that
the couple with be protected from the evil eye (people wishing them ill)
and keeps them out of harm's way.
Russians and Japanese often use similar favors. In both cultures, gifts
like picture frames, flower vases, or sachets as given to guests to wish
them thanks for coming.
The Dutch tradition is to distribute "Bridal Sugar" which consists
of five pieces of sweet candy wrapped in tulle. As in the Middle East,
the number five represents the five wedding wishes of love, happiness,
loyalty, prosperity, and virility.
Giving favors based on a family's cultural, religious, or historical
background is a thoughtful gesture, but some cultures simply do not have
a party favor concept. In traditional Jewish and Chinese weddings, for
example, favors are not usually given.
Of
the many details that go into planning the "perfect wedding," selecting
party favors is something that one can really have fun doing,
and it provides an opportunity for the couple to add their own
personal touch. The favors you choose can be a reflection
of you and, if you pick wisely, an unforgettable memento to your
guests who have shared in the joy on your special day.
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Valley Weddings
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